Why Couples Really Divorce: Top 10 Reasons For Divorce (UK)

6. Lack of communication

Communication is essential to sustaining any good relationship. If communication ceases or becomes disjointed then it can cause many problems within a marriage.

Having open and honest communication allows you to discuss any issues you have personally or about the marriage.

It also enables you to talk over any disagrees. These could be because of children’s issues, money issues or any other common areas of disagreement such as help around the house.

When communication breaks down it often leads to problems that can spiral quickly.

In some cases, you can regain communication and enjoy a happy relationship, but most the time once it breaks down it doesn’t return to a level that sustains a relationship.

7. Addictions

Sadly, addictions causing the breakdown of marriages have become more common.

Our research has shown that 1 in 4 behaviour based divorce petitions mentioned alcohol, which is a worrying statistic.

There are many types of addictions such as;

• Alcohol
• Drugs
• Gaming
• Gambling

These, of course, are not the only types of addiction, but they are the most common ones mentioned in divorce petitions we handle.

Addictions of any kind can cause pressures and tensions within a relationship so it’s not a surprise to us to see addictions as one of the most common reasons for couples getting divorced.

8. Abuse

Abuse comes in many forms, it’s not just the physical abuse that people sustain when married.

Other types of abuse include emotional abuse, psychological abuse, and financial abuse etc.

Domestic abuse and emotional abuse are the most common types of abuse we see on divorce petitions from our clients.

It goes without saying that when any type of abuse occurs within a marriage, it’s a valid reason to want to divorce.

Many people endure abuse for too long in the hope that the other person will change or out of fear.

9. Money Issues

Money can be a sticking point for many married couples.

Is one person financially reckless? Is one person paying for the majority of things? Does one person have debts and continues to overspend?

Money issues often boil over and cause disagreements and resentment, which both cause marriages to breakdown.

10. Infidelity (Cheating / Adultery)

Infidelity has been happening for hundreds of years so it’s nothing new, it just appears to be more common in modern life with the news, papers, and social media playing a bigger role in our daily lives than ever before.

The act of adultery continues to be one of the most common reasons for divorce.

In fact, adultery normally counts for 10% of all divorce applications filed in England and Wales.

The act of adultery can be enough to get divorced, but you must act within 6-months of finding out about the adultery taking place.

How do I go about getting a divorce?

Regardless of your reason for wanting to divorce your partner, you must understand how the divorce procedure works.

Many couples assume that because they have been separated for several years, they can apply for a quick divorce online, which is, unfortunately, not true.

Whilst the divorce law changes in April 2022 have made it easier for couples to get divorced, there is no such thing as an automatic divorce.

Divorce doesn’t have to be expensive. The law doesn’t force you to appoint a solicitor. Thousands of couples get a divorce without a solicitor each year.

If you have never considered getting a divorce online, you should speak with our friendly team on 01793 384 029 to find out how we can save you thousands in legal fees compared to hiring local solicitors.