Top 10 Tricks for an Easier Divorce (That Most People Don’t Know)

By Mark Keenan, Founder & CEO of Divorce-Online.co.uk

Thinking about getting divorced? Let me give you some honest advice — most people make it harder, longer, and more expensive than it needs to be.

At Divorce-Online, we’ve helped over 200,000 people separate over the last 25 years, without the stress and sky-high solicitor fees. Along the way, we’ve spotted the same mistakes — and the same smart shortcuts — again and again.

So, if you’re at the start of your divorce journey, or even part-way through it, these are my Top 10 Divorce Tricks that could save you time, money, and your sanity.

1. Don’t lawyer up too early

Most people panic and think, “I need a solicitor straight away.” You don’t – not unless there are serious disputes or safeguarding issues. If you and your ex can still talk, even a little, a fixed-fee online divorce is often faster, cheaper, and far less stressful.

2.  Sort the finances before you file

The biggest delays in divorce happen after the paperwork’s in – when people realise they haven’t agreed on money. Work out what’s fair first. If you’re both on the same page, the legal process becomes much smoother.

3.  Use a Clean Break Clause

You might think you’re done once the divorce is final – but without a Clean Break Order, your ex can still make claims against you in the future. Yes, even years later. Lock things down properly with a consent order and a clean break clause.

4.  Don’t delay – timing really matters

Waiting for “the right time” to file? With the new no-fault divorce law, you can now apply jointly without blaming each other. That’s a huge shift – and a chance to keep things civil. If you’re ready, don’t wait.

5.  Keep the kids out of it

Child arrangements are often the most emotionally charged part. But going through court rarely helps. If you can agree parenting responsibilities between you – even with help from a mediator – you’ll reduce conflict and save thousands.

6.  Mediate before you litigate

Think you’re stuck? Mediation can help break the deadlock without a judge getting involved. It’s quicker, cheaper, and helps you stay in control of the outcome.

7.  Get your agreement in writing – and approved

That friendly agreement over the kitchen table? It means nothing legally until it’s turned into a Consent Order. We’ve seen too many people skip this step and regret it later. Don’t be one of them.

8.  Don’t fight over the sofa

Seriously. The cost of arguing over small items is often more than the value of the thing itself. Decide what’s really worth fighting for – and what’s just emotional clutter.

9.  Know when to walk away

You don’t have to “win” every point. Some things are better let go – your peace of mind, your time, and your ability to move on are worth far more.

10.  Use online services (the right ones)

There are trusted, fixed-fee services out there that can handle your divorce and financial agreements without you ever stepping into a courtroom. Our most popular package now starts at £199 – and thousands of people use it every year.

Final thoughts from me…

I’ve been working in this field for over 25 years, and if there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s this:

A smart divorce isn’t about revenge. It’s about resolution.

You can do this the easy way. You can protect your finances and your future without spending thousands. And if you need a hand, we’re here to help.

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