Nasty managers can ruin your marriage says Waco study
Research from The Hankamer School of Business at Baylor University, Waco in Texas has found that the fallout from having a nasty boss can insidiously chip away at our marriages and harm our home life.
To get a handle on how bad bosses affect families Carlson and her colleagues surveyed 280 full-time employees and their spouses.
Participants were asked how often their supervisors behaved in ways such as “Tells me my thoughts or feelings are stupid,” “Expresses anger at me when he/she is mad for another reason,” “Puts me down in front of others,” and “Tells me I’m incompetent.”
The researchers then asked participants to rate a series of statements from one to five according to how applicable they were. Included in the questionnaire were statements such as, “When I get home I am often too frazzled to participate in family activities/responsibilities.”
The researchers decided to dig a little deeper by questioning spouses about their marital relationships and the inner workings of the family.
While the employees with bad bosses didn’t report problems with their families, their spouses often did. Bad bosses led to more blow-ups between husbands and wives and to families that didn’t communicate well and weren’t close.